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hi, i know how this feels because i am having the same kind of thing in a pretty extreme way also. i am going to talk to my T tomorrow about this but one thought came up that might help.
you could try getting out paper and writing and drawing things and ask some questions. ask the little one why she eats the way she eats, ask her if she is eating because she is angry or scared or to make her feelings go away or feel better. try to not get angry with her and talk nicely to her and see if you all can work on some kind of cooperation deal.
food is weird. its just supposed to be fuel for our bodies but some of us got strange messages about food and some had food pushed that they had to eat and others, as wanttoheal posted were deprived of food and hurt by lack of food. i'm beginning to think that sugary food got linked to some of my abuse and its getting crazy because we need something to break a chain that links us to crazy eating for weird cult stuff - sorry if that is TMI.
i used to get so angry with my alts. i was mean to them like they were rotten little brats. and the more i did that the more i was almost like their abusers and my T had to help me see how i was doing things wrong. more and more now i try to be nice to my littles and take better care of them and accept them and i have less headaches and less times where they sabotage me or force a take-over by an alter.
i think its good you are trying to help get answers for your system. that is really smart of you. hope things get better soon! PM me if i can ever help or encourage you.
leslie and her pixies
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