I'm sorry sweetie that you're not getting the support that you want and need. Have you tried to sit down with him when there is nothing else happening and having a calm heart-to-heart talk? Maybe you should tell him how you're feeling, I mean, really open up to him and tell him everything you're telling us. Do you think that would help? How about couples councelling? Maybe you both need to have a discussion of what your goals are individually and as a couple to make sure you're both on the same page. You could also ask him if your being sick all the time is taking it's toll on him. I'm not really sure what else you can do but you're in my thoughts and prayers. I can only imagine how upsetting this is to you and confused and frustrated you are at this point. Please keep talking and let us know what's going on. ((((((((((( HJGS )))))))))))