I'm hoping to get some advice or suggestions.
I'm 25 in a committed relationship with a 36-year-old man. We are going on five months. Everything is good, but I'm not feeling like I used to in the relationship. Whenever we make plans for the future, I feel anxious. This is my first serious adult relationshp, and I feel inexperienced.
My father dislikes my boyfriend, but recently became more open to him. I recently created an online personal ad to help me see what else is out there and to make sure I have made the right choice with my boyfriend. A friend of his saw my online ad and showed it to him and he flipped out, saying he didn't understand, and reactionally ended the relationship. We are still talking and plan on talking about this soon--either to stay together or split.
I don't feel the same when we started dating, and I'm not sure if it's my inexperience or what. I can't really say what it is. I feel like I need to meet more guys to make sure I've made the right choice even though everything is good with us.
I'm lost and I'm not sure what to do. Should I stay in my good relationship even though it doesn't feel right or should I start dating other guys (and I don't really like dating).
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