Hi Aisyna!
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Originally Posted by aisyna
I'm lost and I'm not sure what to do. Should I stay in my good relationship even though it doesn't feel right or should I start dating other guys (and I don't really like dating).
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How can the relationship be good if it doesn't feel right?
I've had a relationship with a man 10 yrs my senior, and I'm not against the principle of it. What I learned was the age is not so important, but the stage of life is important.
You and your partner need to have compatible stages of life. If he is wanting to settle down, and you are wanting to expand and explore, it will be a source of conflict.
The 20s are all about exploring life, figuring out who you are and what you want. If you boyfriend is supportive of that -- great! You can explore life, and come back to the stability of the relationship. If your boyfriend is not supportive of that, I would reconsider how strong the relationship really is.
You are one half of the relationship, one *equal* part. Just because you feel 'inexperienced' does not mean that your opinions and feelings are any less important than his.
HTH
