Thread: How do you get some power back and stop living out the victim role?
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Default Oct 09, 2008 at 08:29 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Rapunzel View Post
When I feel threatened with rejection, I go helpless and think that I can't do anything about it.

I feel invisible and silenced, and don't think that anybody cares.
I'm sorry Rapunzel that this has distressed you for your whole life. Do you think that you might have just accepted everyone else's standards as the rule? Where are your standards? If you try to meet these you will have much more success!

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