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Originally Posted by thunderbear
My husband was diagnsed with Crohn's abot 3 years ago and he has been very angry to the point of being abusive. His outbursts cause me to be afraid and anxious. He does'nt mean the things he does. He was never like this before and I love him and I want to help him. But everytime he yells or grabs me I have flashbacks and then I am depressed for days. I need some advice. Thank you all.
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Crohn's is no excuse, no one has the right to treat you this way.
Can you let his doctor know what is going on? At least so they know and can also screen out possible med side effect.
Are you in counseling? Please find counseling if at all possible. Can you go stay with family members or friends?
From what you have written - you are being abused. Please call the national domestic violence hotline, they run 24/7 to help you with a safety plan. Let us know how you do also if you like, folks here do care.
1-800-799-SAFE (7233)
look through this checklist too:
http://www.ndvh.org/educate/what_is_dv.html