I have been with my broyfriend for about 11 yrs. We both have never really dated before. We met in college when I was 19 and he was 21. He was always an honest guy and easy to get along with. Everyone thinks that he is the nicest person in the world. He did not drink, smoke, or party out with friends. I am in love with him.
Things changed when we moved to a new town. We moved because he wanted to study and I supported him. He is now in his early thirties and is going to a college where the majority are in their early twenties. Since we moved he has been different. I noticed he is flirty with girls and even got a myspace page where he flirts and writes to girls things he never said to me. He acts like when a guy is trying to get a girl. He is flirty and has nice things to say to these "online friends" as well as the frieds from his class. He has never been romantic with me or has never mentioned some of those complements to me. I confronted him and told him that he was not being himself because in all this time I did not know he was capable of complementing women like that. He has never really had that kind of attention with me.
I recently found out that he has an add (men seeking women) looking to meet women. I also saw an e-mail he sent a woman who had an add. He sent his picture and information on what he likes to do to a couple e-mail responses. He does not know I know this. I do not know what to do. I love him. We have been together for so long and I truly love him. Finding out that he wants to date or meet other women hurts me. I have always been sincere and have requested the same from him. I've told him that if he does not want to be with me that he should just let me know and we can move on with ourlives since we are only on our thirties. He thinks that I will suffer if we separate but I told him that I will get over it. I want him to be sincere with me. I do not want to be the one to tell him to move on. He does not know I found out about this internet add or that I can read his e-mails. I suspected somthing was not right because I had a dream and then the way he is acting lately. So I went to his computer to see what I could find. Well, I found that add and his e-mails.

I do not kow how to confront him. I can't tell him that I was searching his personal space.