((((((((((((((((((( LMo )))))))))))))))))))) i was having the same problem and feeling guilty about it.
what i do now is (of course tend to a two year old first

) but before i go to bed at nite i make mental and/or physical notes of what needs to be done the next day and when. i wake up and check online, then i get some things done, then i come back, then i get some more done. i also have care for the baby all day. i try to have everything done by dinnner time and, after dinner, except for putting baby to bed the puter is mine

i don't feel the guilt that way.
it's really worked for me these last couple of months.
gl hon. schedule your day the night before to inlcude both work and puter
kd