i still cant figure out how i got bpd, im an only child so i had all the attention, i was never abused, i was treated very well, even now i am spoiled.. but not a brat. I have loving parents but docs dont know why i have it. I was a "problem"child but i wasnt. i did things worse then most children but then when i was happy i was sweeter then most children and am still ike that today. I'm just messed all over lol