Boy, I would just get out of the whole thing. You're lying. Maybe he's lying. Too much uncertainty. Too creepy for me. I would just say that your life is moving in a different direction & you need to focus on your career or something & an on-line or developing or committed or whatever (?) words you would use for your relationship just doesn't fit into your life right now. I hope you didn't give him any identifying info.--where you live, etc. (cringing)--Suzy