Hi mel

I met you only briefly in chat ...and didn't get a chance to really meet you or get a chance to talk to you.

I'd really like to get that chance though.

For now I'd like to welcome you and say you have so much courage. You are going through a lot.

Even though "this man" is having heart problems...that doesn't lessen the fact of what he did to you and that it was wrong.

He had no right to do what he did to you and you shouldn't feel any guilt or mistaken him being sick or whatever excuse anybody throws at you for what he chose to do to you when you were a child. He was the adult and made that choice.

I hope that's ok to say. I hope you can work through this and my reason for saying that is just so that you're not minimized in any way for what you've been through...like you've said ...you are a survivor.

Take care
Eva