Hi Griffe, I'm sorry that you were in distress last night. I hope that you left your grafts alone. Griffe you still love your family even though they were abusive, especially someone as loving as you. Your family was very toxic and dysfunctional, most likely because they grew up in the same (but you managed to do better, again this shows what a special person you are).

You worry about others and not yourself because you were raised to meet the needs of others and deny your own needs? You can change this Griffe, I did.