wow... Bbear...that is hard for the system (especially wahya) to take in. It's ironic that people all the time say to me "Be good!" I never understand this - i'm almost always "good" and think ppl ought to tell me to be bad for once... but then, internally, we already think we are bad. it is confusing.
I know the kids struggle a lot with are they "good", are they evil, are they the devil, or monsters. What I didn't know was what that one friend's family did that wahya stepped in for. I mean, i know a lot of how mean they treated me and made me out to be bad... i don't understand how ppl can be so mean and hurtful to kids. to anybody.
I know we often won't care for injuries because we don't believe we deserve to - that somehow we're fundamentally flawed. and yet.... strong. to get thru it. we always get thru stuff. we're flawed but...

mabe only fragle things are good?

i dunno anymore