mountainhigh - welcome to PC. My divorce was final a year ago on 10/22 and one of the reasons I came to this site was to find people to chat about it with.. I've found it to be a great place. I wish I had some help to offer you other that to say, now that it has been one year since the divorce for me, I'm in a much better place that I was. It is still a sad thing, but I'm learning to move on.