Thanks for your opinion. I know time apart is great. My real concern is for my daughter learning more then she should when she was first born up till about six months there were no bad vibes between me and my Mom. My daughter learning or seeing anger didn't happen. We bump heads about money and that such. I'm 23 married with a child. I'm one of those people at 6 I acted 12 and at 12 I acted 18. Now I feel like a thirty year old. My Mom does great when it comes to my daughter. Half the time I don't want to leave her but my Mom is very attached to my daughter. So weekends I get some adult time and my Mom watches my kid. I grew up way to fast and I always blamed my Mom. Now having my own daughter I'm beginning to blame genetics a lot more. My daughter acts like a two year old and she is not yet one year old. Yeah she does baby things but when it comes to her way. Its no way but her way. She even try's hurting herself in minor ways just to get what she wants. Dad grandma and Mom don't give into her fits. I have always thought you make your kid the way they are. I don't think that any more. At ten minutes old the nurse was weighing my daughter put her facing away from me. She got this horrible look on her face and turned her head. I got it on tape. She came out getting her way. Yeah she gave dirty looks at ten minutes old. Can you imagine not an hour old snipping her nose. I got this parenting thing down. But some things just amazes me. This little girl knows so much and she is so little. I'm beginning to wonder how much genetics really takes lace in a persons own self. I see a lot of my anger coming out in my daughter. I feel I have control of my life. But this kid I view her as her own person. I'm not like most people who think oh she is a kid just as I was. Nope I think OK what impacts can I or will I make on her life. Then boom she does something like I would do. I talk to professionals and they never have a clue. They always say keep working with her. Well, dah. I know. What I don't know is where she has learned to be demanding and forceful. We do not show my daughter violence. She watches baby cartoons for pete sake. My point to all those who think they know. Genetics plays a huge roll in every little detail of a person. Thanks for your time folks, Happy viewing.