You know, I moved from California to Kentucky. It is my new beginnings at the age of 55. Left my husband of 32/33 years & have completely started a new life. I know there are parts of me that are exactly the same person I was before, but I was able to completely leave the rut & the crap behind & start a fresh new life. I have friends that I never had before. I have found people that care & that I care about more than I ever experienced in California all my life. I have gotten involved in community activities, I have really grown in my religious beliefs. I still have some of the problems at this time of year from the trauma I went through 4 years ago, but in reality, I am a completely new person who is loving life even with all the difficulties I have come across being completely alone.
I noticed you live in California.....lol.....maybe I should suggest that you move to Kentucky & leave your crap there too. The thing is that I tried bringing my husband here for a fresh new start too, but strange thing.....he couldn't leave his crap behind & brought it with him......so I kicked him out.
You see, it is what you want your life to be like that really determines who you are & no one else......as people get to know me here, they find out the things I went through in my life & they don't change me back to the person I was.....they don't even try....they just accept me for who I am now.....but I have determined exactly who & what I am NOW.
Just something to think about?
Debbie
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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