and he said I got mad at him over nothing. I explained the tone in my voice wasn't mad, I was irritated by the conversation and the fact I was repeating something that I had told him several times, and up until then didn't know that he had no clue I had been bringing it up. Then when I pointed out bringing it up he goes "oh well that was 2 months ago." I said that's fairly recent and he said "No! It isn't!" I said well still I'm not mad just irritated, and he even argued with me about that, saying the difference doesn't matter the tone in my voice bothered him so it doesn't matter that I wasn't mad. Said I may not "know" that I'm upset, but I am.

This was all yesterday evening and I'm still crying about it I don't know what to do about it, am I really wrong for being "irritated over nothing"? He said I was mad but I wasn't, and to me it wasn't nothing I was irritated over feeling all the times I brought it up and said something about it, I was wasting my time and getting nowhere because it obviously had no impact kept telling me too that he couldn't remember me saying anything (we even had a big argument about it about 2 months ago, and trying to bee a good g/f that was the last time I said anything about it to him. I did not realize he would forget. I hate myself right now and I'm not sure if that's fair because I don't know I did anything wrong?