what sucks is that i'm not telling him he's wrong for having a feeling based on how he thought I was sounding, but please listen to me and don't disagree with me when I'm trying to tell you about my own feelings! I wasn't irritated by just the way he felt, that had nothign to do with it but of course I'm the bad guy and I should not have even felt irritated at all, so in this I would not have expressed any irritation at all. I wasn't insulting him, cursing at him, or raising my voice, NONE OF THAT. I DON'T NEED THIS **** RIGHT NOW.