I'm sorry 2bfree,,,but I can't find the reason for the miff...

I think when there is uncertainty in our lives we can tend to be fearfull and insecure and thus work things into more than they are..When frustrated and/or in pain we tend to look for absolutes,,real answers or reasons for what is or has happened...but generally there are none..

We need to seek a sense of thoughtfull duality,,where we are working as hard on understanding the other side as much as our own....or in some cases even more so...

It seems you love him...tell him that and let it go...

IMHO..

With care,

Lenny