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find what they (those who neglected or abused) didn't like in you...what they tore down. nurture it and build it back up. then you'll like yourself. fight for yourself. don't let them win! once you've fought a battle for self, you'll care for the person you've rescued...you.

have you ever noticed that when you've truly fought for someone (i.e. a child) that the bond and love is even more deep than could be imagined? turn it inward and you'll win every time. fight like you've never fought before...for yourself. you'll find worth in doing that.

it's a mile that's worth walking.

N

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Hi folks,

Kimmy, I've read (and lived) a good bit of psychology, but your post just bowled me over.

Of course, those early attacks didn't happen by chance; there was something in us that the parent/parents didn't want us to have, and they tried to take it away. But it wasn't theirs to take.

It is a long walk back, and it is worth the walking.

jmo - From reading your post, I believe that you are on your way.

Cheers, Myzen.