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Originally Posted by Lenny
I'm sorry 2bfree,,,but I can't find the reason for the miff...
I think when there is uncertainty in our lives we can tend to be fearfull and insecure and thus work things into more than they are..When frustrated and/or in pain we tend to look for absolutes,,real answers or reasons for what is or has happened...but generally there are none..
We need to seek a sense of thoughtfull duality,,where we are working as hard on understanding the other side as much as our own....or in some cases even more so...
It seems you love him...tell him that and let it go... 
IMHO..
With care,
Lenny |
Hi Lenny thank you for that
He's upset with me, that's why I'm bothered, I was not upset with him, but this is why he is mad at me. I don't know what to do about that. I explained that my tone of voice was irritation at the topic, not at him, I'm not mad at him, what do I do about that?
I know this is confusing that's what's wrong with me right now I can't get it worked out! I don't know how to apologize for being mad if I'm not mad? Trying to explain you are not mad when someone is telling you "you may not know it but you are" is something I can't figure out!