I guess one thing I would say....it that when your self-confidence is found, you will realize that you don't need a man in your life & unless you just happen to be lucky & find the right man, you won't waste your time on the jerks that are out there.

I have to tell you, I found a nice man.....he is still a nice person.....32 years of tolerating the other things about him that didn't work...I am now happily separated from him......but he is still a nice person....just a jerk.

So don't think that just because a guy is nice that he's the right one for you. You have to look at the whole person & don't waste your time on others.

Debbie