imo the secret to a successful and dynamic relationship depends upon several factors... discovering each other is an enriching process where two souls are concerned... patience, love and safety for selves and the other will determine the pace of the typical mile-markers we look for (first eye contact, first smile, first handhold, first embrace)

for a relationship to really work personal honor for self and other really matters.. feelings of security, trust, companionship, etc. take time to nurture in a safe way for each...

setting safe and respected boundaries are key.. start off on the right foot.. be true to yourself always and allow your mate the same.... follow simple rules like 'never go to bed angry' .. this will compel each to settle differences before the end of the day and allows the next day to begin less stressfully.... let each other feel and express.. mostly, dont bully each other and you should be fine .. the commitment will take place when the time is right for you both.. hope this helps some..