My wife left me with all the stuff too. We had boxes and boxes of pictures (memories) that I divided up for us and our two children. Four stacks of bittersweetness that took several weeks of laughing, crying, etc.

I'm determined to rid myself of the anger I feel for having been deceived for four years. I have started to go to my old church again and even prayed for my ex and her boyfriend. Another book I'm reading by Mahareshi Yogi says that every thought and action are like pebbles thrown in the ocean. Ripples that go on endlessly. I want my ripples to be happy and positive, not angry and negative.