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Originally Posted by ncguynva
I feel for you because I am currently going through a seperation right now with my wife and it started with a similar situation like yours. My wife tried coming to me about things she did not like and I paid little to no attention to them. I admit, I was a bad husband and I didnt notice it until she had gone outside the marriage for attention. But I would recommend going to your husband and telling him that you are very very hurt by his lack of sensitivity and you need his assistance as a husband. Let him know that as a husband, he should be there for you, not just financially, but emotionally and also to take care of the kids. Let him know you are very unhappy with his actions and it is starting to effect you. Perhaps that will be a wakeup call to him. Best of luck.
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(((ncguynva)))
I tried to tall him many times and he would listen and said he felt bad and he would "behave" better for a few days, but then, changed back to his olds self again. This cycle has been going on for years. I am getting tired of his "I am sorry." "I love you and I will change" kind of lip service. Sometimes, he will even say things out of spite that really hurts. I have been very depressed and sad. I don't want divorce because I don't think it is good for the kids, but I am so unhappy for I feel like he never TRULY understand how I feel, or even TRIED to understand how I feel.... I tried to even tell him to talk to somebody else about our situation and thought may be he will listen to a third party like a friend or something, but I don't think he will ever do that for the sake of his pride.....