I am sneaking in a reply. One of the clerks in my office narc'd me to the boss for being here and doing online job searchs at other companies, or so it appears. My boss is very crabby to me today and gave me a pile of busy work she hopes will keep me busy for days. It will actually only take a few hours and reveals some crap she has put off for years that has certainly cost the company thousands.

I went to my gender issue therapy intake. It was not much to remark on. It seems I have pretty much covered the issues here and with a couple friends. It was kind of a funny situation. She told me right out that she is a lesbian and experienced in all kinds of sexuality issues. She told me about various "queer" issue support systems locally. We talked about my son's picture appearing in the Gay Pride gallery on Yahoo. It felt like she kind of like was welcoming me to the queer community, which I guess she was, but what an odd place to find myself after all these years, and how odd to find it ok.

Question: As I said my boss has been crabby to me. Well, I have been even crabbier to her for weeks. Do you think it is wrong to say anything to her about my having been in a state of mental chaos for several months now? It would probably help repair some hard feelings, but my issues are not really any of her business. This is a puzzle...

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