ive had to learn the skill of setting boundaries as a requirement to better health for myself, and also a way to improve and create the type of relationships i prefer..

what is your preference about when or where another is allowed to enter your own safe zone?

you can choose for yourself what fits, and you are the filter of what comes in or leaves your safe zone... this gives you a massive amount of ability in creating the exact types of friendships you desire right now.. these boundaries can change, but to be safe, they need to be infallible in whatever particulars they currently are made of...

be strong about this... this is the foundation of your life... you can say no or yes to that which is your own choice... choose health for yourself first... do not allow others, named as friend or not, to disturb your need for good health... you will know when your boundary zone has been entered by your own sense of personal mental health... not feeling too happy? something has entered your zone....... peace and love always..