((vrba)))) To be truthfull I have problems with that all my life. I always put my parents first. Even when i was little.
I of course put my kids first as that is the right thing to do. But as they grew up I still had a hard time putting me first...ever....
I worked on some projects and that always came first....which is not healthy...
Back awhile I was taking care of my parents, running a biz, taking care of 2 kids. a house, there was no time left to be me...
I think I felt I deserved to be at the bottom of the pile as I call it... which is something I think that is taught over the years....when young...prolly called low selfesteem...((spelled wrong))
I do have a hard time setting boundaries..but getting better at it...
I still for what ever reason put everyone else first...........