something else to be sure to do, is be completely upfront about who and what you are. Make sure she knows you are short, definately exchange multiple pictures with her.

For your first meeting, NOT a DATE, do something interesting but none committal.

I met my wife on Match.com and was upfront about having kids from my first marriage, the financial troubles I was in. Out first date was a hike in a national park. Something that if things seem wrong or awkward, you can easily dodge out of. (opps, got a blister, twisted ankle, leg cramp) we better stop now......(Don't do a coffee date though, those are the worst. My wife blew off a coffee date to go on that hike with me!)

I also had about 20 pictures of myself posted, I've done so many different things with my looks, that she said she didn't think all the pictures were of me! Dyed my hair, beard, moustache combos, long hair, short hair, etc.