Well, I stuck up for myself and I think my situation is improving. I won't really know until tomorrow. I may get attacked by the other party for setting boundaries. So far that is what is happening with one person. But if that happens I know I am the one who is right. Of course there's the saying, "Would you rather be happy or right?"
The point is I defended myself. I feel better having done it, but I still can't eat because I am too upset.
I'm going to work on this in therapy.
Thank you everyone. I'll let you know tomorrow what happens. I'm afraid I will cry during the confrontation that I'm going to have tomorrow when I see this other person.