Ignore my question on my last post about how your appt went lol. My son takes risperdal and it helps with his violent temper. I feel sometimes I need to be on it cause I get in moods where I wanna beat people up to. Everything little thing gets to but since I've been on Abilify it has helped ALOT. I hope this works for you. I'm very sorry she didn't really listen to you. Good Luck on the new med.