Pink,

We are lifers, aren't we? But what about when I want T on Death Row?

JAAAAAAAA

Meeka, thank you. Yes, I will fill every cell. sigh. It just finally feels good.

Coconut,

I'm sorry you seem to be getting mixed messages from T. It DOES sound confusing. Can you explore this with him?

My T just kept encouraging me to get what I need from the relationship. However, he did do something a couple of times that felt like he was pulling away. It was during a rupture and I was very needy and fragile and he said that he was concerned that my therapy was not enlivening. I panicked, but afterward was able to tell him how angry that made me. I wonder if it was some kind of intervention? Maybe that's what your T is doing?

Just a thought.