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Old Oct 14, 2008, 08:14 PM
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Originally Posted by coconut64 View Post
he reminds me that his job is to make his job obselete.
My T has never said something that is to me. When ever we have talked about me questioning the need to continue, the discussion always ends with what I want and if I feel like there are still benefits to be gained. I would have a lot of trouble engaging if she was always reminding me that our interaction will eventually end. If anything, she reminds me in low key ways that it will continue until I don't need it anymore.

I don't know what my T thinks about attachment, if it is healthy or not. I think she encourages independence.

At this point... I don't think I'm in it for life, but I'm not ready to quit just yet.
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