Oh, boy... I've been putting off answering your question because I'm still undecided about the outcome.

All things considered, being a good mother to my kids has been my most important work. My kids all have great qualities. I've never had to bail any of them out of jail, none of them are addicts of any kind of chemicals. Out of the four, two went to college; as you know, my oldest son has a successful business, my daughter worked for her Master's degree in teaching while married and raising two boys... and is working now. The other two boys didn't go to college but have a good work ethic. Those two had minimal development problems; the younger worse than the first. He didn't learn to read very well in school, but now he's "addicted" to Louis Lamour books. His older brother's spelling and communication skills are practically non-existent.

I'm going to leave it at that because this should be as positive as possible.