i just moved in with my boyfriend. and i'm wondering if sometimes someone prefers autoeroticism (aka masturbation) to sex. i know he has at least one jenna jameson movie, and some other stuff that was labeled pornography - it doesn't bother me since i sometimes watch some myself (though only when i'm alone and i haven't caught him watching when i'm there). i just wonder how it's going to work out. if sometimes people need some private time.

this wasn't a problem when i moved in with my best girl friend - but we weren't having sex and i was feeling like crap back then anyway so absolutely 0 sexual desire. now that i'm having sex with someone... i have faced the fact that eventually the "daily" will become "weekly" or less.. and maybe that sex will be replaced by masturbation.

gah, i wish i was like cassandra mortmain in the book i capture the castle. in it she says,

any experiences? esp. from those who have been living with their partner for a longer time.

many thanks,
twilight