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Originally Posted by DontSayIt
I'm going to stick around through it, encourage him to be independent, and not allow him to rely on me financially. If that one day ends our relationship, than that has to happen. I do deserve a partner who is responsible, independent, and at some level of satisfaction in their life. I know 
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As someone who has been where you are I am truely sorry that you are going through this! I beg that you make your happiness your choice! You have stated that you have been with him for a while...I did the same! I kept dreaming and thinking and hoping that he would change, he did not! After 20 years...he is still the same person! Now that does not mean that your mate will not and cannot change, but it does mean that you cannot change him.....
You do deserve a responsible, indepeNdent, pardner that you can LOVE AND RESPECTAND WHO LOVES AND RESPECTS YOU but it appears that he does not and that he is looking for someone to take care of him! Do yourself a favor, take care of yourself and move on because if you don't you will find that you have wasted your youth on A DREAM because he is showing you over and over and over again, WHO HE REALLY IS! You weren't there to take care ofhim so he found someone else who would....that is what it is about for him!
TJ
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