QUOTE: "So the youngest is graduating and so my gfs family is going to be here as well as the youngest's dad."

Shaymus is nobody's father and has the right to not want to be there, so just don't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Notice the treatment to the partner: "gfs". Could it be any clearer that you don't have nuthin to do with it and therefore no reason to be bothered?

Moving to a mobile home, though, that's something to worry about. Or not having any food to eat or any heat in the winter or not having water to drink and bathe and all.

Being all alone in the world with absolutely nobody to count on. That's not the case, dear one.