My better half has been depressed for a while, and it's gotten to the point where she is leaving because she thinks it'll hurt me less (she knows it hurts me to see her hurting). I've begged her not to, because I worry less if I'm there to make sure I can at least comfort her if she's feeling down. I don't care what happens between us (I do, but her safety and well-being is more important to me), so what should I do to make sure she is all right? I have trouble focusing as is, and if I'm always worrying about how she is doing, I don't think I'll get anything done (not that I get much done anyway, but still). If anyone can offer any advice, that'd be amazing.
~Tabouleh
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