I think it's really strange that your T is so forgetful. Forgetting small things seems normal to me, but this is too much, especially after 9 months of therapy. On the other hand, if you just mentioned the name of your partner (and other things) and didn’t talk about it later, well… that makes the situation a little better, but it is still really strange.
My T remembers everything, even the little things. Sometimes i even wish she would forget some of the things i said