These are the moments when I fight with him! LOL I call him on it.

I think I am in the minority here, but I think you need to look at all of the angles because the therapeutic relationship is a real relationship that both parties are vested in. I remember once that T said I wasn't the only one in the relationship with an emotinoal investment. Wow, that statement opened my eyes and I began to notice aspects of our partnership that I hadn't noticed before.

I am not saying you should change your mind, but before you quit, why don't you discuss this with him and see where it brings you? Sometimes when T annoys me, he is being annoying and sometimes when T annoys me, it is because I am projecting or I am avoiding facing something.

Good luck with whatever you decide.