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Old Oct 16, 2008, 01:10 AM
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Originally Posted by wanttoheal View Post
(((((((((((((Kiya)))))))))))) That sounds really hard. Is there something you can take to group with you to help ground you, such as a small stuffed animal ... Maybe also you can talk to the co-workers before hand and work out a hand signal to let them know you are struggling before you get to the point of switching?
(((((((((((((((W2H)))))))))))))))))))
I did have both Benedict and Scardy Cat with me. Pulled out scardy and had her under my scarf for wahya to hold - she's smaller than Bene and easy to hide.
The Co-facilator T did talk about having a signal or letting her know somehow - but I don't get it. I guess when I know I'm about to switch I feel there's a giant spot light on me and i try to hide more and start compartmentalizing things to try and avoid the switch. I guess i am just so not used to alerting ppl to a problem. Something to work on for next time.
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