Wow, That is horrible.......I gave up smoking when I was pregnant, but I hated it......I would sneak a hit like once a week, both of my children were born very healthy thank goodness.......I have a good husband who drinks occassionally and doesn't smoke or do any other type of drug, never has, he knows a lot of people who have and he tolerates my smoking, but complains about the smell and tells me I need to quite smoking cigarettes all the time, moreso than pot. I don't know, I am very attentive to my kids and we have a wonderful loving family life....I am appalled at stories where children are poorly treated due to drug abuse, I mean yes, I smoke but I don't neglect any of my life responsibilities. Like I said my only fear is that my daughter, when she learns about drugs through the DARE program at school will probably tell everyone that her mommy smokes and not think anything of it.......what do you think would happen in that case???? Would they call the police and come to my house???? What happened in your case, were you actually being neglected and abused when they took you away???