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Oct 18, 2008, 02:45 AM
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Member Since: Jul 2008
Location: east of the sun, west of the moon
Posts: 2,259
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moose,
septembermorn said what is in my mind. he is acting exactly how he will be in marriage he will not change. if you think he'll change after marriage you are not thinking realistically.
i've lived 28 years with an unsympathetic mate who also happens to "disbelieve" my dx which is mpd/did. he has not changed in all that time, if anything he's less kindly now than as a young man.
when you marry you are actually choose which set of problems you wish to live with in marriage and choosing a set of strangers to become family. CHOOSE WELL/BEWARE!
HUGS AND WARNINGS, 
LESLIE
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