wow, kendyll, you are taking wonderful care of your boyfriend. that is amazing.
i have a friend with DID and she says one of her alters was killed, and she hasn't emerged ever since. she and her system are still, however, afraid of whether she is dormant.
glad you have found T's! that will help a lot.

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