ahhh, thanks Pat, it is a gift to be there, to be able, and it is a gift that costs peices of me that I always need to replenish somehow. You guys help with that. The real honest loving connections with my clients and my friends help. Life is too weird. Today I was working and realized that a family I had already dedicated myself to helping facilitate their transition, had connections with my hubby and youngest! Weird, special, meant to be? Honestly it was so strange.