Place you are so kind. I wish I could explain it but it's just so important to my soul to help people feel loved and valued and safe as they are making this transition. It's important to me that we not treat it as a big scarey boggie monster. I am referring to illness that leads to death over time. Lots of times people just die and that is different. we are all going to do it. My advanced directives stat that I want to be attended 24x7 by someone who loves me in my final stages. I want to be sung to and talked to and have people tell me the funny stories in our lives. By the way, it's also important to me that people who are not dying, just us peoples are treated with love and respect. We each have a gem to offer the world and we each need the love and to give the love. I hope this makes some sense. I can't even tell Hubby I met his friend today because of confidentiality. She is my client's daughter. Odd how things work out. Also, my black haired friend's son calls me every night and talks about what is happening and how his dad is changing and how best to help him.

We have become quite close and I am glad I can be there for him. We are already planning the memorial and I am excited to know people who can sing the songs he likes. Long post, sorry.