i am the caregiver for my 82 year old mother. I have had much physical, mental and verbal abuse in my life. Verbal, from my mother. It seems like she is taking all of her anger, bitterness and depression out on me. When this happens I have horrible nightmares of abuse, wake up with my heart pounding and I start talking in my sleep. I can't talk to her about it because she does not really care. Any suggestions? This is really disturbing me.