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i am sorry you tried to reach out and got slapped down for it. that stinks. some people are incredibly selfish and do not want to let anyone push them to the edge even of their comfort zone. that is so lame.
i can not APPLAUD YOU highly enough for leaving your kids out of this as much as is possible. they do not have the resources to actually do anything for you and the price they will pay is sooooo high!!! you are one of the good guys and i respect the fire out of you. my mom pulled me into the middle between her and dad and it did me a lot of damage. they actually call that "emotional incest" if a parent makes a child the "emotional partner" to the parent and tells them their problems and asks their opinions. a child will normally try to rise to the need of the situation from love and need of his/her parent. Thanks for being strong and kind enough to leave the children out of this really tough situation you are in.
use us here at PC to help you as much as we can and you will get through this. leslie and her pixies
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