There is an enlightened purpose driven life too with an aspect that gives and takes little...called selflessness...

This sense understands the concept of community and oneness. It accepts our position as a vital aspect of the total community but neither takes our appetites as singular nor our wants as suppressive.

By the sound of many of your words as you type here Muffy,,,much of your Joy comes from helping others. Your "self" is composed of this giving.

It is somthing to aspire to...

Lenny