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Originally Posted by muffy
I have to say "me" would prolly be at the end of the list.
I can show assertiveness to protect my Kids. Things I really stand up for in life.
Things I believe in...
I have always been able to jump into action when needed for others..my parents, sister, kids, issues in the community...
But for what ever reason,.......I put me at the end...
is it low self esteem?
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How about just not being able to meet your needs? Many of us got this message while growing up when we were bound to meet the needs of our parents while they ignored our needs. Message - meet other's needs and ignore your own..... A person will be stuck here until they address it directly.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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